Preparing Your Child for Growth at Camp

Have you ever watched your child hesitate before trying something new—only to see their face light up with joy and pride when they succeed? Growth often begins with uncertainty, but the reward is worth it. That’s exactly what camp is all about. 

In our first blog post in this series, we discussed how prioritizing growth over comfort can help children become strong, resilient, and Godly individuals. Camp offers an incredible opportunity for kids to step out of their comfort zones and experience challenges that foster independence, faith, and self-discovery. 

But growth doesn’t happen automatically—it starts with preparation. As parents, we can play an active role in helping our kids embrace the opportunities camp provides. This post shares practical tips to help your child get ready for camp and make the most of their experience. 

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1. Build Confidence Through Small Responsibilities 

Growth often begins with independence. Encourage your child to take on small responsibilities at home, like packing their own backpack for a day trip, planning their outfit for the day, or organizing a household chore. These steps build confidence and prepare them to manage new experiences at camp, like keeping their cabin space tidy or choosing activities during free time. 

For example, you can let them practice decision-making by asking: 

“Do you want to help make dinner or organize the family game night?” 
“What would you pack if we went on a mini adventure today?” 

By learning to trust their abilities at home, they’ll feel empowered to take ownership of their camp experience. 

 

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2. Highlight the Adventure 

Camp is an exciting adventure! Help your child see it that way by talking about the unique activities they’ll get to try, like ziplining, horseback riding, or evening campfires with friends. Show them photos or videos of camp to build their anticipation and give them a sense of what to expect. 

Frame the experience as a special opportunity to discover new hobbies, make lifelong friends, and create amazing memories. One parent shared, “My son was hesitant at first, but he came back talking nonstop about the ropes course and the campfire songs. It was the highlight of his summer!” 

3. Help Your Child See Challenges as Growth Opportunities 

It’s normal for kids to feel a little nervous about trying something new or being away from home. Let them know that challenges—whether it’s trying an unfamiliar activity, making new friends, or being in a new environment—are part of what makes camp so meaningful. Share how facing challenges can make them stronger, more confident, and closer to God. 

Remind them of other situations where they’ve overcome difficulties, like learning a new skill, completing a tough school project, or handling a disagreement with a friend. Help them see how those moments helped them grow and how God was with them every step of the way. 

Speak affirming statements to encourage them, like: 

“I know you’ll do great. You’ve overcome hard things before, and I’m so proud of you.” 

“God is with you, even when things feel tough—you’ve got this!” 

“You’re so brave for trying something new, and I can’t wait to hear about all the amazing things you’ll experience.” 

By reinforcing their past successes, you’re helping them approach camp with confidence and excitement. 

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4. Cover Their Camp Journey in Prayer 

Before camp begins, spend time praying as a family. Ask God to guide your child’s journey, bless them with meaningful friendships, and help them grow closer to Him. Share with them the encouragement of Philippians 4:6: 

“Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.” 

This year’s camp theme, "No Matter What," is rooted in the story of Daniel and the reminder that God’s faithfulness remains steadfast, no matter what trials we face. Remind your child that just as God walked with Daniel through the lion’s den, He will be with them through their camp experience, whether it’s smooth sailing or a bit challenging. 

To make it personal, consider writing this verse on a card or in their journal so they can carry it with them. A simple visual reminder of God’s promises can bring peace and comfort throughout the week. 

 

5. Stay Positive About Separation 

If your child is anxious about being away from home, offer calm reassurance. Express confidence in their ability to thrive at camp and trust the camp staff to provide a safe, loving environment. Avoid sharing too much of your own anxiety, as this can heighten their worries. Instead, focus on how proud you are of their bravery and how much they’ll enjoy the experience. 

 

6. Write Them a Letter (or Send an Email) 

Receiving a letter during camp can be a great source of encouragement for your child. Write something simple and uplifting, like: 

“We’re so proud of you!” 
“We can’t wait to hear about all your adventures!” 
“Remember, God is always with you—no matter what!” 

You can also send your child a digital message using our Bunk1 email service. It’s a great way to brighten their day and remind them they’re loved and supported. 

 

7. Remind Them God Is With Them—No Matter What 

One of the most powerful lessons of this year’s camp theme, "No Matter What," is that God is faithful through every trial. Whether your child feels uncertain, homesick, or unsure, remind them that God is with them every step of the way. 

Share the comforting truth of Deuteronomy 31:8: 

“The Lord Himself goes before you and will be with you; He will never leave you nor forsake you. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged.” 

Help them see that camp is not just about fun—it’s an opportunity to experience God’s presence in a deeper way, even when things feel unfamiliar. 

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The Takeaway 

Preparing your child for camp isn’t just about packing their bags—it’s about readying their hearts and minds for growth. By fostering independence, framing camp as an adventure, and anchoring them in the truth of God’s faithfulness, you’re setting the stage for an incredible, transformative experience. 

For more tools and resources to help your child grow spiritually, check out our Life After Camp resources. 

As you prepare your child for camp, remember that you’re giving them a gift—an opportunity to grow, to trust, and to discover God’s faithfulness in new ways. No matter what challenges they face, they’ll come home stronger, braver, and closer to Him. 

 

What’s Next? 

This blog is the second in a three-part series exploring growth at camp. If you missed the first post, "Growth Over Comfort," you can read it HERE. In our next blog post, we’ll explore “How to Help Your Kids Debrief Their Camp Experience,” offering practical ways to help them reflect on what they’ve learned and apply those lessons to their daily lives. Stay tuned to continue this journey of growth and transformation. 

Ready to send your child on the adventure of a lifetime? Learn more about RVR’s camp programs here. 

Jon Bisset

Jon is RVR's Executive Director and President of Peter & John Ministries. He brings a lifetime of experience to Christian camping and ministry.more